KIPI HUNA KATI YA HIVI: NDOTO, MALENGO, MIPANGO, NA NIA YA DHATI? AU HUNA VYOTE?

*KIPI HUNA KATI YA HIVI: NDOTO, MALENGO,  MIPANGO, NA NIA YA DHATI?
AU HUNA VYOTE?*

Karibu kupitia haya pia..

Kila siku iitwapo leo nakutana na kuwasiliana na vijana wenzangu kutoka kila pembe ya nchi hii na wananiambia wanataka kufanikiwa. Katika kuzungumza na kila mtu ninazidi kujifunza vitu vingi. Nimeona nikushirikishe wewe pia huenda vikakusaidia.

So, nimejifunza kuwa kuna vijana wa aina 4.

*KUNDI LA KWANZA*

Hawa hawana ndoto (dreams)❌, wala malengo (goals)❌, wala mipango (plans)❌ za kuwafikisha wanakotaka.

Yes. Wapo wengi tu.
Kwa kifupi hawajui kwa nini hawajafa bado. Seriously ukimuuliza kwa nini bado uko hai atakwambia "ni mipango ya Mungu".  Unaweza kusema hawajajitambua bado. Unaweza kusema hawajielewi. Unaweza kusema hawajui hata kwa nini waliumbwa. Hawa ndo hawajui hata tafsiri ya mafanikio. Wengi wao wanaishi kwa kufuata kinachoitwa "societal norms". Mkumbo tu. Hawa ndo wana muda wa kutosha kujadili kuhusu skendo za wasanii, nchi ina njaa au haina, tuhuma za madawa, Makonda anafaa au hafai. Wewe uko Ukerewe huko tena Ukara, Makonda anakuhusu nini truly?😞😞

Kundi hili lina watu wengi wa kada zote waliosoma na wasiosoma wenye ajira na wasio na ajira na waliojiajiri. Ni kundi kubwa na lina kelele nyingi kwenye social medias. Huyu anaweza kuingia Facebook ku-scroll tu. Kisha mlio wa WhatsApp ukilia huyo. Anaingia kuchek kwenye group kuna nini. Kisha Insta kuangalia nani kapost nini!
Hawa wanaongoza kulaumu serikali na wazazi na kulalamika kukosa sapoti au kukosa mitaji pasi na kujua kuwa tatizo kubwa liko kuanzia shingoni kwake kwenda juu!

Kama upo kundi hili ni dhahiri umaskini ni fungu lako. Hawa hata Mungu wanamfanya mganga wa kienyeji. Wanataka waombewe eti wafanikiwe. Kwa dreams zipi sasa? Kwa goals zipi na plans zipi?
SMH

*KUNDI LA PILI*

Wapo ambao wana ndoto tu peke yake (dreams)✔ ila hawana malengo (goals)❌ wala mipango❌

Hawa angalau wanajua kuna kitu wanapaswa wafanye. Shida unakuta hana malengo. Mfano ana ndoto ya kuwa mwanamuziki wa kimataifa. Ok sawa. Sasa umejiwekea malengo yapi? Hola. NIL. Nada!!
See? Anaongelea ndoto zake kweli kweli. But hajui aanzie wapi. Mwisho anakata tamaa. Anaanza naye kuongelea madawa ya kulevya mpaka akili yake inaanza kulewa nayo. Afu anaishia hapo.
Hawa huwa nawaambia wakae chini watulie wajiulize kama kweli ndoto wanazosema wanazo ni ndoto kweli au just wishful thinking? Maana ukiwa na ndoto kweli hutatulia. Utakuwa kama mjamzito. Hali yako itakuwa inabadilika tu as time goes on. Nikiona una ndoto halafu maisha yako hayana kuhangaika fulani hivi kusaka njia ya kuitimiza najua hiyo ndoto si yako.
Lazima ukae chini kubuni Goals na Plans za kufikia ndoto yako.
Mfano nina ndoto ya kuwa mtu mwenye maarifa ya mambo mengi. Hiyo ni dream. Goal gani nimeweka? Ok mwaka huu nimeweka lengo (goal)  kusoma vitabu 50 kwa mwaka ili kuongeza maarifa. Kitabu kimoja kila juma. Tunavyoongea tuko juma la saba la mwaka na niko kitabu changu cha saba pia.
Kama upo kundi hili tafuta mtu anaitwa JOEL NANAUKA hapa Facebook. Search hilo jina. Ameandika kitabu kizuri kinaitwa TIMIZA MALENGO YAKO. Kitakusaidia.

*KUNDI LA TATU*

Wapo ambao wana ndoto ✔ na wana malengo✔ ila hawana plans (mipango)❌ ya jinsi ya kutimiza malengo yao.

Hawa wanahitaji usaidizi kidogo.
Nimekupa mfano wa dream yangu na goal ya 50 books. Plan yake je? Hapa iko hivi nimeweka PLAN rahisi tu kuniwezesha kutimiza hiyo goal. Mojawapo ni kuwa kila kitabu nachukua idadi ya kurasa nagawanya kwa (siku) saba. Mfano kitabu nilichomaliza juma lililopita kilikuwa na kurasa kama 420. So nilisoma kurasa 60 kwa siku. Everyday. Cha wiki hii kina kurasa 200. Vingine unakuta kurasa 150. Hivyo hivyo. Nadhani umepata picha.

So ninakutana na vijana wengi wana mpaka malengo. But plans hana. Anataka kuingiza sh milioni 50 mwaka huu ili mwakani afanye kitu kinachompeleka kwenye ndoto zake. Goal nzuri kabisa. Lakini hana plan. Hawa ndo unakuta wanacomment AMEN akikuta Facebook mtu amepost picha ya maburungutu ya pesa. Anaishi kwa superstition.

Lazima uweke plan. Na uifate. Je plan yako ni nini unajiajiri? Au unaajiriwa part time?
Plan.
Plan.

Ukiwaza hivi vitu utapata muda wa kufatilia mambo yasiyoisha ya siasa na wasanii kweli? Unaishi na akili imejaa sura ya Gwajima na Makonda siku nzima. Unajitambua?

Sumbua akili yako. Be serious. Mentor wangu aliniambia "Your mind has to be on a leash at all times! Like a dog on a leash. You must control your mind". #IloveMyMentor.

Kataa kupoteza muda.
Bila hivyo utasema dream zako hadi unaingia kaburini. Ishu ni DISCIPLINE. Nidhamu. Bora ukose kula kuliko kukosa kufata plan yako.

*KUNDI LA NNE*

Wapo ambao wana ndoto✔ wana malengo✔ na mipango mingi✔ tu ila kuyafanyia kazi  wanashindwa❌

Yes. Unaweza kugawanya kurasa za kitabu na usisome vile vile.
Hapo ni ishu ya UDHATI. Napoleon Hill anaiita hii DESIRE na kusema ndiyo chanzo cha mafanikio yoyote. Jim Rohn anaiita hii AMBITION. Kutaka kwa dhati. Nenda You Tube andika Jim Rohn: Power of Ambition usikilize. Kipi bora: bando yako iishe kwa kusikiliza Wema Sepetu sijui anaeleza nini kuhusu Masogange au iishe ukisikiliza na kujifunza vitu vya kukusaidia kufanya lililokuleta hapa duniani. Unakuta mtu yuko Chuoni anasoma lakini mind imejaa ramani ya Central Police Dar. Yani wewe uko UDoM central ya Dar inakuhusu nini lakini? Notes hujamaliza kuandika uko WhatsApp!

It's your choice though.

But hii "EAGER DESIRE", hii ambition ndo Dangote alisema kama huna basi hupaswi kuwa hai. Unasikia maneno hayo?

So kundi hili la watu wasiofanyia kazi mipango yao shida ni HAWANA DHAMIRA YA DHATI kutimiza ndoto zao japo kwa nje wanaonekana kama vile wanaenda kwenye ndoto.

Sasa sijui wewe unajiweka kundi lipi. Najua huwezi kujidanganya mwenyewe. Unajijua ulipo.
Asubuhi ya leo nilikuwa na vijana wanne  mmoja kamaliza kidato cha nne watatu wamemaliza chuo wote wana DREAMS. Hawana goals wala plans! Nimewaelekeza na kuwaomba tuonane kesho Asubuhi tena kila mmoja wao akiwa keshaandika hayo. Watu unaowajadili wana maisha yao. Jaribu kujadili ya kwako.

My friend,

Tafuta kuunganika na watu wanaokupeleka kwenye mafanikio yako. Watu wasiopoteza muda na clip za bungeni kila siku. Mi nataka clip za mambo yanayonipeleka kwenye ndoto zangu. Siyo za madawa ya kulevya. And that's me. Wewe kama unataka za Bunge fine. But if unataka kubadilika utimize na kuishi ndoto zako basi karibu tuzungumze zaidi. I hope nitajifunza kwako na pia utajifunza mawili matatu kwangu.

But truly, UTAWAAMBIA NINI WATOTO WAKO KUHUSU KWA NINI HUKUFANIKIWA MAISHANI with all the time you have?

Semper Fi,

Andrea G. Muhozya
Dar es Salaam, Tanzania,
East Africa

www.andreamuhozya.blogspot.com

+255788366511

HOW TO TURN WATER INTO WINE. (JINSI YA KUBADILI MAJI KUWA DIVAI)

Nashukuru Mungu kuweza kuwa nanyi hapa leo tena, ni neema ya Mungu. Hope mpo salama. So leo tujifunze pamoja something very important.

Kwanza nianze kwa kusema kuwa kosa mojawapo katika maisha yako utakalolifanya ni kuishi maisha yako yote hujawahi kusoma Biblia tena kwa USAHIHI siyo kwa ajili ya kuendea mbinguni tu bali kwa ajili ya kujifunza mambo muhimu mbali mbali kuhusu maisha (of course ikiwemo hilo la mbingu). Hii haijalishi unawaza nini kuhusu Biblia au wewe ni dini gani. Nasema hivyo kwa sababu kama utajifunza kitu katika makala yangu hii ya leo basi ujue kuwa unahitaji kuanza kusoma hiki kitabu.

Sasa tuendelee..

Sasa bana.. Kwa miaka mingi toka niko mdogo nimesikia mara nyingi sana kuhusu huu muujiza wa Yesu. Unarekodiwa kuwa muujiza wake wa kwanza in public. Na hata nilikuwaga sielewi. Na wengi hawaielewi lessons mbali mbali zilizo katika story hii inayopatikana John 1:1-11.

Leo naomba tushirikiane kujifunza machache tu ya kukusaidia kuondoka katika hali uliyonayo. Kila mtu ana hali fulani maishani mwake asiyoipenda iwepo either kwake au katika maisha ya watu anaowapenda. Kama huna wewe umeshakamilisha kila unalotaka duniani basi jiandae kurudi kwa muumba wako any time. Sasa kwa makala hii jambo unalotaka ndiyo WINE/DIVAI yako. Ila lazima ubadili maji kuipata.

 Unataka kuolewa, kuoa? Watoto? Unataka kufanikiwa kifedha, unataka ajira, unataka nini? Chakula cha kutosha ghalani mwako? Unataka kuwa kiongozi wa nchi au kampuni kubwa? That's your wine.
Unataka kujenga biashara kubwa ya kuigwa mfano? That's your wine.
Unataka kusaidia familia yako iondokane na umaskini kabisa? That's your wine.  Unataka kutatua tatizo la michezo Tanzania kutofika mbali? That's your wine? Unataka kumiliki kampuni kubwa ya usafiri wa anga duniani? That's your wine.
Maji ntakwambia ni nini.  Be patient...

So baada ya kujifunza upya kuhusu huu muujiza nilijifunza mambo YAFUATAYO ambayo ndo teknolojia yenyewe ya kubadilisha maji kuwa divai:

1. DEALING WITH NEGATIVE PEOPLE

Aisee nilikuwa sijajua hivi vitu na naomba ujue kuwa hakuna kitu kinachokwamisha mafanikio ya watu wengi kama kuruhusu NEGATIVITY kichwani mwako.  Huyu mtu anaitwa Yesu alikuwa strict kweli kweli when it comes to that. Hakuwa na maskikhara haijalishi anayeleta negativity ni mama mzazi,  mwanafunzi ambaye atakabidhiwa uongozi baadaye, au ndugu wa rafiki yake kipenzi. Kumbuka Simoni Petro alipomkemea Yesu asiongee kuhusu kifo chake Yesu akamkemea back kwa kumwambia "Rudi nyuma yangu shetani".  Hakutaka kabisa kuwaza negative. Hata rafiki yake kipenzi alipofariki akaletewa habari alijibu "HAJAFA... AMELALA TU".  See? Very positive.
Sasa tuone hapa Kana ya Galilaya. Mama yake Yesu kaalikwa. Na Yesu na wanafunzi wake wamealikwa pia kivyao. Kinywaji kimeisha. Yesu anajua. Na anajua cha kufanya. So hakuhitaji mtu wa kuja kumwambia kuhusu kukosekana kwa DIVAI. Sometimes watu wanaukuja kukuambia habari mbaya kuhusu maisha yako au maisha ya uwapendao huja kwa nia inayoonekana machoni kuwa njema lakini kumbe wanaweza kuwa wanatumika kukuyumbisha kiimani.  KUMBUKA. Narudia, KUMBUKA kuwa huhitaji negative statements nyingi ili uishiwe imani au ushindwe kuachieve kitu unachokitaka.  Sentensi moja tu inawezekana ikakumaliza wewe na watu wako wote.  Eva aliposikia sentensi fulani fupi tu kutoka kwa nyoka (nyoka akiwa ameingiwa na shetani) Eva akala tunda.. Sentensi fupi tu.... "Hakika hamtakufa..." (Mwanzo 3:4).  Eva wa watu akaamini kumbe hakuna kufa. Afu kumbe kuna kufanana na Mungu. Akakosesha kizazi kizima cha binadamu. Yesu alikuwa anajua UMUHIMU wackutokaribisha NEGATIVITY kutoka kwa mtu yoyote.  Ndo maana mama mzazi alipokuja kuleta habari mbaya. Negative. "Hawana divai".  Biblia ya kiingereza inaonyesha alijibu kwa ukali kidogo. "Woman, what have I to do with thee?..." (John 2:4). Halikuwa jibu la kukosa adabu but jibu la kuonyesha strictness. Petro aliitwa shetani katika mambo ya aina hiyo.  Lakini huyu ni mama. Ila ni kama aliambiwa " mama niache najua".  "Tuna nini mimi nawe?"

That's how you treat negativity.  Reject it on the spot.  Mtu akikuletea habari za kukwambia nchi ina matatizo, nchi ina njaa, nchi ina ukame, nchi haina ajira,  nchi hiki nchi kile.  Nchi hii watu hawana hela. Mtaani hali ni ngumu. Afu na wewe ukashabikia.. Ujue you will NEVER get your wine. I'm telling you.  Achana na habari za kusikiliza negative people. Kuna watu na pages za kuunfollow na kuna watu wa kublock.  They're are simply too negative. Be like Jesus.  "Tuna nini mimi na wewe?"  ina maanisha pia "What DO I HAVE IN COMMON WITH YOU?". When you're positive you have nothing in common with negativity of any kind.. Mtu akikwambia aisee unajua hali ni ngumu mwambie "Kati yangu na wewe kuna kitu tunafanana?". Ifikie mahali mtu anakuja kukuelezea shida na matatizo akifika kwako anaahirisha. Ukistudy watu wengi walikuwa wanamwambia Yesu matatizo.  Mwanangu anaumwa. Rafiki yako amekufa. Hawana divai.  Tunaangamia (na dhoruba).  Hawakuona kuwa kuwa na Yesu was a solution itself. Watu wanakwambia hakuna ajira

Watu wanakwambia Biashara ni ngumu. Pesa hakuna.  Na wewe unasikiliza.  You will never accomplish what you want. Lazima ifikie hatua unakataa kusikiliza. Hata kama ni mke/mume au mzazi. Mwambie hamfanani wala hamuwazi the same.. You have nothing in common.  Tuna nini mimi nawe.  Yesu hakuwahi kuentertain habari kutoka kwa mama toka siku hiyo.  Yani alimuunfollow.  Yes.  Kuna wakati Yesu anahubiri akaambiwa mama na ndugu zako wako nje. Nadhani jibu lake unalikumbuka.  Mama na ndugu zangu ni hawa wanaonisikiliza

. Ameshaunfollow.. That's why wakati anakufa akamkabidhi kwa Yohana.  Mama tazama mwanao.  Biblia ya Kiingereza inasema WOMAN BEHOLD YOU SON

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Hakutaka kuwa tied na mtu kisa ni mzazi wakati anaweza kumkosesha bila kujua. Unajua wengi Yesu hawamwelewi. Reject negativity completely.
That's step one.


2. IDENTIFY YOU WATER.

Cha pili ni kuwa ukishakataa negativity haitoshi. Wine haiji bila "MAJI" right.  So you have to identify your "water".  Raw materials. Nini kinapatikana hapo ulipo wewe ambacho kinaweza kukupa what you want. Wengine wenu MAJI yako ni kipawa chako.  Wengine maji yako ni idea fulani unayo. Wengine wenu maji yako ni watu wanaokuzunguka majirani nk. Wengi wa vijana wanaohangaika na ajira elimu hiyo hiyo waliyonayo ndo MAJI yenyewe.  They have the raw materials.  Kila mtu mwenye shida ana some kind of raw materials ya kubadili kuleta DIVAI anayotaka.  Find your raw materials.  Hii huwezi kujua bila kuwa mtu wa kukaa peke yako kuongea  na Mungu na kutafakari neno la Mungu na kutafakari UKUU wa Mungu na kutafakari ambayo Mungu keshakutendea. You must set aside muda wa kutosha ina a day at least 1 hour wa wewe na Mungu wako tu. Utaletewa majibu tu ya kujua what's your WATER. Be sensitive to God's voice wherever you are.  Yesu alikuwa katika sensitive mode hiyo wakati mama mzazi analeta habari za hakuna divai. Yesu hakutaka mind yake kuyumbishwa na mtu yoyote hasa kwa vitu ambavyo tayari anajua na anafanyia kazi. Tatizo wewe mind yako haitulii.  Unayumbishwa na kila mtu.  CCM wakisema hivi unayumbia huko Chadema wakisema hivi unayumbia huko.  Hutaki kukaa  na kuwaza kama wewe.  Ifikie mahali utambue RAW MATERIALS zako on your own.. Usisubiri CCM au UKAWA wakupe solution ya nini unahitaji kutimiza malengo yako.. I'm telling you if you look around kuna MAJI ya kutosha kupata DIVAI ya kutosha. Hivyo ndo Yesu alivyokuwa anawaza.  Wakati mama anaona LACK. Yesu aliona PROVIDENCE. Huyu anaona ukame huyu anaona evergreen. Get my point? Ukiona watu wanaongelea UKAME na wewe unaona UKAME ujue kwanza huna imani ndani yako na pili umeshaambukizwa  negativity ya kutosha hali yako kiroho na kifikra ni mbaya. Wanaoweza kumwona Mungu ni wanaoweza kuona DIVAI katika vyombo vitupu.  And I'm saying lazima uitrain mind yako kukagua mazingira yako ili kuona MAJI. Raw materials. Huwezi kufika hapo kama hujablock baadhi ya watu Facebook na kuunfollow baadhi ya pages na groups. That's why kila unayesikia analalamika.  Negativity imejaa vichwani. Wengi wameshindwa kuona anything good anymore. Wanawaza tu HAKUNA hiki, hakuna kile.  Hakuna mvua

hakuna ndoa za kweli, hakuna elimu, hakuna ajira, nakutana na vijana wengi wananambia sina mtaji,  wengine wanasema hakuna mikono,  hakuna dawa hospitali,  hakuna hela mtaani,  hakuna maua, hakuna wateja.  Hawaangalii around. Kumbe kuna maji ya kutosha kujaza mabalasi.  Kuna solution hapo hapo ulipo. Block some negative people wanaofanya akili yako isifocus kwenye kuidentify your RAW MATERIALS. Yes. Kataa. Sasa wewe una entertainment eti ooh this is my bae. Your bae? Fine, but you'll NEVER get your wine.  Yesu hakufanya kitu cha ajabu. One alikataa negativity. Pili alifocus kwenye raw materials.  Umenielewa?


3. TAKE ACTION BY TOTAL FAITH.

Ukishajua MAJI yako ni nini. Just take action.. God is waiting to see you take that step.  Sikia. Tragedy kubwa ni kuwa wengi wanaomba Mungu afu wanasubiri majibu.  Badala ya kutake action.. Jesus took action.. Akawaambia watumishi "FILL THE WATERPOTS WITH WATER". Ok kujua raw materials tu haitoshi unapaswa kujua wapi ipelekwe. Na njia gani. Haya yote utayajua kama tu wewe ni mtu wa kutuliza kichwa.  Acha kuyumbishwa. Tuliza kichwa hicho. Wengine vichwa vyao havitulii hata akilala kichwa kinazungukwa na majinamizi na vikatuni katuni tu. Hawezi kukaa one hour tu aseme natuliza kichwa. Waajiriwa wengi wakipewa likizo badala wakatulie kuwaza wanaenda kushinda kwenye TV au baa au kwenye miradi. Culture ya kutuliza kichwa haiko.  Ndo unakuta raw materials ziko na mtu ni positive lakini hawezi kubadili MAJI KUWA DIVAI sababu kichwa hakijatulia. So unapaswa kutuliza kichwa na kutake action kwa imani. Yesu aliwambia JALIZENI MABALASI MAJI. Wakajaza hadi juu. Nice. Kisha Akawaambia TEKENI MKAMPELEKEE MKUU WA MEZA. Yani action after action. Hakuna kusikilizia.  Mungu anataka hivyo.
Umekataa negativity
Umetambua raw materials zako
Then take action non stop.

Hapa wengi husita.. Keshajua ana uwezo wa kuongea vizuri badala akaombe kazi kwa imani anasita.  Keshajua anaweza kuongea na watu badala akaanze biashara kwa imani anasita. That's why ni wachache wanapata divai.  Wachache sana wanabadili MAJI KUWA DIVAI.

Je ungependa kuwa miongoni mwao? Ujumbe wangu kwako ni huu.
Achana na negative people. Mtakutanaga mbinguni. Kama watakuwepo.
Then tambua MAJI yako ni nini?
Then take action.
Write that book.
Compose that song. Hujiulizi huyu kijana anawazaje kichwani?

So take action..
By faithCall that customer
Talk to that potential partner.
Start that business.
Write that speech
Write that proposal

Identify your WATER See the WINE in the water then take action.

That's how to turn water into wine.

Unajua hakuna aliyejua maji yamebadilika saa ngapi exactly kuwa divai except Jesus and God in heaven. Hivyo hivyo watu hawatajua lini exactly ulibadilika kichwani except you.  Watu hawatajua lini exactly account yako ilianza kusoma 6 figures except you.  Watu hawatajua lini exactly maji yako yamebadilika kuwa DIVAI except you.  Be bold. Block all negativity.  Permanently. First things first.  Ukiweza hilo mengine ni rahisi tu.


Nikikuona unalalamika tena ntajua tu hujajua kuhusu somo la maji na divai. Najua kuwa UMEFUNGA NDOA NA NEGATIVITY na hauko tayari kuandika talaka. Ntakuacha kama ulivyo.


Be bold.  Turn your water into WINE. It can be done.


Semper Fi,

Andrea G. Muhozya
Dar es Salaam, Tanzania.
East Africa
+255788366511
www.andreamuhozya.blogspot.com

UNATAKA MAFANIKIO, SAWA LAKINI UNALIMA MAHINDI AU MINAZI?

Kwa neema ya Mungu wa mbingu na nchi nimepata wasaa wa kushare na nyinyi tena jambo muhimu.

Nimebarikiwa kukutana na watu wengi mno hasa vijana kila siku na kubadilishana mawili matatu kuhusu mafanikio. Na nimejifunza kuwa watu wengi hawafikii mafanikio wanayoyataka sababu wanataka KULIMA MAHINDI.

Wanataka kuvuna haraka haraka so hawataki KULIMA MINAZI.

Kila anayetafuta mafanikio ni MKULIMA.  But kuna watu wamechagua kulima mahindi na wachache wamechagua kulima MINAZI. Nadhani kwa kuangalia mazao niliyoyataja unaweza kuona tofauti kubwa ipo zaidi katika inachukua muda gani kuja kuvuna. Mahindi ni fasta tu.....lakini minazi! Weeee.....  Inabidi uvute pumzi kweli kweli.

So nimejifunza kuwa ukitegemea kilimo cha mahindi utavuna haraka lakini ukishavuna itabidi ulime tena. Au siyo? So hiyo ndo inakuwa life. Ila minazi utasubiri sana.  But ukianza kuvuna hulimi tena. Ujue Mungu bana ana vitu amazing sana ukitafakari. Sasa the best way for you in life ni kulima minazi. I believe hadi hapa umeshaelewa kuwa majina ya mazao nimeyataja tu kama kiwakilishi cha njia utayotumia kufikia mafanikio yako.  Kubali kuinvest a lot of time. Kama umewahi kuangalia video ya CHINESE BAMBOO utakuwa unanielewa vema.  But kama hujaitazama nakushauri stop kwanza kusoma huku chini kisha uingie hapa https://youtu.be/2nFDmrLGgYM uitazame ni fupi tu. Kisha utakuja uendelee. Tutaenda sawa mno.

Now...
Watu wengi hawataki kuinvest muda kwa kuwa wanataka wafanikiwe WAO. Kuna a selfish motive ndani ya kutaka kwao mafanikio. Na hata akificha if he/she sticks around long enough itadhihirika tu kwa kukosa kwake subira. Kufanya jambo linaloleta matokeo baada ya muda mrefu mno ni jambo ambalo wengi hawataki. Na kwa kuwa sasa tunaishi katika ulimwengu wenye Instagram na kufesibuka kwa sana mtu akiona picha za wenzake wanavaa vizuri vizuri anatamani kuwa kama wao haraka haraka. So kama wameajiriwa anatamani kuajiriwa fasta. Ndo maana waajiriwa wengi wana magari (of course ya mikopo) sababu kubwa ni hii "comparison fever".  Nimeielezea kwa kina sana in my upcoming book. Lakini kama unataka mafanikio ya kudumu hupaswi kamwe kujilinganisha na mtu.  Unapaswa kuangalia PLAN ZAKO (kama unazo that is) na kuzifanyia kazi.  Unachoweza kufanya ni kuangalia waliofanikiwa walipita wapi kisha ujifunze kwao na kuboresha. Lakini usitake kuwa Bakhressa leo kwa miaka mitano.
It takes time. Bhakhressa hajaanza "kulima"  mwaka juzi.
Long time kitambo.
It took him time.
Being Dewji took time.
Being Mengi took time.
Being Dangote took a very long time, and many a sleepless night.
Being Warren Buffet took time.
Being a really successful YOU takes time. A long time. Ni kama kulima Chinese Bamboo. Si umeshaicheki hiyo video? Kama bado hebu icheki.  Seriously.

Winning an election especially for the first time as a party takes a long time.

Talking of which najifunza mengi kwa vyama vya upinzani hapa kwetu Tanzania. Jinsi ambavyo, kwa mawazo yangu madogo, ninavyoona wanahangaika kulima mahindi badala ya kulima minazi ambayo ndo itawafikisha mbali.

Mfano:

Niweke WAZI hapa kuwa suala la upinzani kuchukua dola ni jambo jema mno kwa ustawi wa taifa letu kwa ajili ya kuencompass mawazo mbadala ambayo mengi huonekana kama hayafanyiwi kazi na chama tawala.  Huo ni mtazamo wangu na siyo sababu nataka kufurahisha mtu. Ni jambo jema,  but I like to say siyo lazima ENDAPO mawazo yao yatafanyiwa kazi na taifa likaendelea vizuri. And that can become a bigger problem kwa upinzani kama CCM ikiboresha say hata 70% tu ya issues.

HOWEVER shida ya vyama vya upinzani ninayoiona mimi ni kuwa mpaka sasa hawataki kulima minazi wanataka mahindi.  Bila kujua kuwa mkulima wa mahindi akivuna lazima alime tena msimu ujao bali mkulima wa minazi akilima mara moja tu kinachobaki ni kuvuna. Mfano Sasa hivi ukitazama upinzani wanawaza 2020 washinde uraisi.  Mahindi. Wakishindwa "tumeibiwa kura". Hawaonagi wapi wamekosea.  Haya,  ikiisha hiyo watawaza 2025. Which mpaka sasa ni ngumu kwao. Coz kama wataendelea kupresent Mhe Lowassa, au Mhe Sumaye as wagombea wao basi wawe na uhakika wa kushindwa kama CCM itamweka tu hata Nape au Makonda. (I believe ccm ina a surprise package for 2025 yuko anapikwa kupokea mikoba ya Magufuli) See? That's the difference.

Upinzani wana nani anapikwa now? Wanapaswa wapike mtu au watu for a long time. Minazi. Hivi mfano wangepika mtu kama Mnyika for say, 30 years toka alipokuwa 25 years old mpaka afike 55 years old akiwa anaandaliwa tu kuwa raisi every single day for 30 years wangeshindwa kuiondoa CCM kama wana hiyo GOAL? See,  strategies hizo hazionekani that's why wanatafuta mtu ambaye ni maarufu tayari (ready made product) kama Lowassa ambaye kajijenga kivyake or rather and worse kajengwa na ccm hiyo hiyo. Ccm ina akili sijawahi ona. Imeinvest kwa lots of youth muda mrefu. Wapinzani hawataki kuinvest for the long haul. Wanawaza 2020 eti.  Na 2025.  Ukiwauliza nani anagombea in 2040 usikute hata idea hiyo haijafikiriwa. Sasa kama plan za miaka 25 tu mbele hakuna mnatamani nchi ili muipeleke wapi? They've already failed in 2025. I assure you. Trump alijiandaa for a long time and hakuna aliyejua kuwa atashinda nomination ya GOP.  That's why kina Obama na Clinton waliishia kumkejeli na kudharau wakati yeye kisha study kuhusu ELECTORAL COLLAGE for many years kimya kimya.
Kuishinda ccm unahitaji surprise package ya hatari ambayo wapiga wakiiona wanasema wow, huyu sasa ndo tulikuwa tunataka. Inahitaji kulima minazi. Waangalie mbali aisee. Tatizo watu wanataka now now. Kilimo cha mahindi.

That's why hawana key ideas wanazosimama nazo bila kutetereka.  Utasikia ufisadi.  Saivi kimya.  Maksi zinaondoka.  Saivi unasemwa udikteta na uonevu mara raisi anajifanya mtakatifu mara serikali imekula rambi rambi mara serikali imenyima watu msosi wakati wana njaa. Mara ruzuku za CUF.  Yani HAKUNA central idea ya kusimama nayo hata katiba ni kama inapotezewa sababu ya siasa za matukio. Kwa nini wasiseme okay kuna tetemeko but issue central ni katiba hatuhami mpaka ije. Au Okay raisi kaja na style tofauti ya uongozi but tunasimama na katiba. Hakuna central issue. But wanakuwa wa matukio sababu wanataka wewe RELEVANT bado kama CCM.  Ndo unasikia ukuta, ukiisha inakuja kata funua,  maneno yenyewe ya mtaani kabisa.  Kata funua ndo nini kwa watu serious wanataka nchi. Wameshindwa kuja na phrase inayoeleweka kweli? Eti kata funua.  Hata nayo haiwi communicated kwa wapiga kura ieleweke inamaanisha nini? How can God give you authority ya kuongoza watu wake?

Kama upinzani ambao by the way una maanisha chadema, kama wanataka kushika dola wajipange  for a really long time.  Wakubali kilimo cha minazi. Otherwise basi maneno ya "Profesa" Jay kwenye wimbo wake Bongo Dar es Salaam yanawahusu: "..mtangoja milele na "mtakufa" bila kelele kama walivyokufa wafuasi wa kibwetere".  Mhe Haule anapaswa awakumbushe maneno hayo.

Watu wengi hawana tofauti kimwenendo na hilo nililolieleza. Wana-approach success kwa kutaka wafanikiwe WAO. Na hivyo wanakosa wao na kuwakosesha hata watoto wao. Ni kweli inawezekana utafanikiwa wewe.  Lakini angalia zaidi after wewe yatadumu.  Nyerere aliona hilo.  CCM yake imeyumba kweli kweli lakini bado ipo ipo sana. Uongo?

Thomas Edison na invention ya light bulb, kina Henry Ford, Ferdinand Porsche kina Lamborghini kina William Deloitte walifanikiwa kwa kuchagua kulima minazi. Siyo mahindi. Njaa ya msimu kama haiui basi haina shida. Wanasema   WHAT DOESN'T KILL YOU MAKES YOU STRONGER. Manji amekuta utajiri wa babu, wewe kwa nini usiweke FOUNDATION ya wajukuu zako kufanikiwa.  Hutaki. Afu unasema babu yangu hivi kwa nini hakuwahi viwanja Masaki? Kwani umeambiwa vimeisha? Si ukanunue sasa wewe ili wewe uwe babu mzuri kama unavyosema? Shida unataka kulima mahindi. Short term relevance. Yani uwe kwenye chati kila siku. Long term and meaningful success inahitaji uonekenane kama haupo. Kwani mwaka 2000 ulikuwa unamjua Dangote?

Mafanikio yasiyodumu baada yako hata mbinguni huendi.  Yani kazi yako IKIFA baada ya wewe kufa imekula kwako.  MATUNDA yako lazima yadumu.  Alisema "mpate kuzaa matunda na matunda yenu yadumu/yakae".  Sasa matunda ya kudumu yanachukua muda.  Kama kulima minazi.  Wajukuu watakuta minazi. Mahindi hawakuti.  That's the differen.  Kama unafanya kitu ambacho eti "kinakuweka mjini".  Yani shida yako ni kikuweke mjini tu basi unalima mahindi.. Watoto na wajukuu wataishi kwa kutegemea mvua na chakula cha msaada. Why subject them to such a sorry life wakati ungeweza kufanya kitu cha kudumu for them.
Ungeweza kujenga biashara imara lakini ukasingizia eti ooh siyo kila mtu lazima awe na miradi.  Watoto na wajukuu zako wataishi kwa kusubiri ajira. Na maroboti yanakuja, drones zishafika, Google kitu kinaitwa ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE (au Al kwa kifupi) ujifunze jinsi ajira zitakavyopotea huko tuendako.
Ungeweza kufanyia kazi kipawa chako ukakifanyia kazi na kujinoa kwa muda mrefu ili siku ukiingia sokoni uweke alama but hutaki.
Ungeweza kuja kufungua kampuni kubwa baadaye ili utatue hilo tatizo la ajira linalokukera lakini wewe unataka uajiriwe WEWE. Ili uvae vizuri ukope gari ukale Samaki Samaki afu basi.  Ukifa na degree yako inakuwa imeishia hapo. Hakuna kinachodumu.  Mungu akikuuliza huko ulikotoka uliacha nini jibu huna. Kisa ulipenda kulima mahindi ukaona minazi usumbufu. Eti ntaushije. Eti siwezi kujitesa maisha yenyewe mafupi. Ngoja ukifa hujaacha kazi ya maana hapa ndo utayakuta huko maisha marefu kweli kweli.

Usiwe blinded na RELEVANCE ya muda mfupi.  Matajiri wengi walipita vipindi vya kuchekwa na kukosa hata pesa at times.
Kutothaminiwa na ndugu au jamii nk.  Kwa kuwa tu walionekana hawavuni haraka haraka kama wengine. Kumbe mwenzao amelima minazi. Au Chinese Bamboo.

Wengi wakilima wakaona inakawia huishia njiani na kwenda kulima mahindi tena. Afu basi. Wanakuwa relevant now. Lakini jina lako hata wajukuu watakuwa hawalijui.  Ukichunguza kwa nini watoto leo wanajiita Don Ronaldo sijui Boss Lady.  Pamoja na mambo mengine but pia ni kwa sababu kwenye surname yake huyo mtu hakuna Dewji wala Mengi wala Mufuruki. Si rahisi mtoto wa Dewji kujiita sijui Don Van Persie au Sijui Undertaker hahaaaa.  Issue ni surname sometimes. So usije shangaa watoto wako na wajukuu hata jina lako wametupa kando tena hata hujafa. Surname haina mvuto. Kila uliona minazi inakukawiza kula bata.


Chagua vizuri.

Usiangalie leo tu my friend.


Semper Fi,


Andrea G Muhozya
Dar es Salaam, Tanzania
East Africa
+255788366511
www.andreamuhozya.blogspot.com

THERE WILL BE THREE SURPRISES IN HEAVEN (PART I)

Happy New Year everyone..

Thank God we are still together,  and you know why? It's because we still haven't done our assignments here on planet earth. Otherwise we would be long gone.

So,  again,  Happy New Year, 2017!

It's not wise to dwell in the past, no matter how good or bad it was.  But allow me to tell you one of the greatest things I will forever be grateful for 2016. I met a mentor. And since I met him I have learnt a lot of things. So I thought I should share one of the things I learnt while having a conversation with my mentor on the last days of 2016.

We were talking about life and I guess he realized that I was still one of those people who talk about LIFE as a word instead of LIFE as a reality, a real thing. If you're one of those I assure you you're not alone. So he might have picked that from my words. I know him. He listens not only between the lines but I thing also WITHIN the lines. He said to me,  "See,  the object of life is to serve God and serve (God's) people". That means if you don't live your life as a SERVICE to God and to people then you're just existing - no matter who you are.
Think about that for a moment.

He went on to tell me, "See there'll be three surprises in heaven, one of them is when religious people MIGHT find people like Michael Jackson sitting in the middle of all the big fishes like Abraham,  King David,  Peter and Paul. That'll be quite a surprise,  no?"

I thought, well YES!

What do YOU think?

Well if you do your research among strong professing people of religious beliefs of every kind on their view of heaven you can be certain they have a list of things you must do to get there. As a Christian myself I also did live my life as a religious person for a long time. And so I know what I'm talking about. If you ask a typical Christian or Moslem how to get to heaven you'll get your answer right away and if you only stick to THAT answer alone I'm telling you you may be well on your way to hell with your eyes wide open.

The object of life is to SERVE GOD AND TO SERVE PEOPLE. If you don't do that you have wasted your lifetime for nothing.  Bora hata nyuki alizalisha asali wakati wa uhai wake! It doesn't really matter how many times you pray in a day or in a week or which days you worship God. I'm telling you THAT'S NOT THE WAY TO HEAVEN.

When I was in High School there was always a question asking you to COMPARE AND CONTRAST between things. So let's do the same with Michael Jackson for example. We can not be sure where he went for sure but let's just take an account on whether he LIVED or JUST EXISTED.

As I said the object of life is to make your life that of serving. Not to enrich yourself but to serve. I loved it when I heard that Bill Gates isn't planning to bestow his wealth on his children  but on charitable causes.  Can you imagine that? In other words he is telling his children Hey,  my wealth is for service to other people. You've got a fairly good life already!
Do you have SUCH a heart towards other people? That you can work day and night for way too long and create so much wealth just for other people?
Is that what your life is about? Or are you like the many others trying to GET something from this earth, trying to build houses and buy cars and take em vacations and dine and wine in the finest places on the planet and then die, never having touched the lives of those that are struggling?
See one of my friends once asked me once "Why do you write so much stuff,  you don't get tired"? What he didn't realize is that I'm doing God a service.  I am serving God and his people.  I'm trying to give back the little I have.  I am trying to lift someone up and educate people.  I'm trying to contribute something to life.  I'm trying to LIVE and not just exist.

So,  back to Michael Jackson. This is a guy who shook the music industry.  He left his mark. He didn't just coast around he went all the way up and made all the money he could make through his talents and abilities which were GOD-GIVEN. He became not only famous but also RICH. It's what he did with the money that I want to share with you to challenge you to look at yourself and see if you are living or just existing.

Here's a short list for purposes of pondering on:

In 1984 he made $1.5 million from a Pepsi commercial.  If you're here in Tanzania that's more than Tshs 3 billion  in one commercial.  And it is 1984 we are talking about. Most people weren't born yet. But wherever you are,  a million and a half is really big money.  Michael Jackson donated ALL OF IT to a BURN CENTRE FOR CHILDREN TRUST.
How would God feel?

In 1985 Michael Jackson wrote the famous song WE ARE THE WORLD with Lionel Richie and performed it the same year TO RAISE MONEY FOR AFRICA.
How would God feel?

1986 Michael Jackson set up the Michael Jackson N*gro College Fund to help fund the education of people of colour who were generally looked upon by whites.
How would God feel?

In 1989 he would give tickets to his show to underpinned children and donate proceeds from his show to CHILD HELP USA - the biggest charitable organization against child abuse, according to the #LookToTheStars Organization.

In 1992 Michael Jackson established the HEAD THE WORLD FOUNDATION. This one worked hard to airlift about 6 tones of supplies in Bosnia. Few people remember the BOSNIA WAR that followed the collapse of the former Yugoslavia and the Serbs backed by Slobodan Milosevic. I still remember my brother who used to ask me as a little boy:  "UNAWAJUA WA-SERB  WA BOSNIA"? (Do you know the Serbs of Bosnia?) obviously after hearing it over the news back in the village thanks to that small Panasonic "radio" back then. Then I would ask him NDO KINA NANI? (who are they)? And he'd try to explain things to my little curious mind. Well that was all for us. But much later when I was studying Law at the University I got to dig deep into that conflict and discover way more things than I thought there was to it.

But by that time, 1992, Michael Jackson would have 6 tons of supplies go to people affected by the same war my brother and I were trying to understand.

The same foundation provided education on the effects of drugs and alcohol and donated millions of dollars to less fortunate children.
How would God feel?

I once heard that he even attempted to buy the TABLE MOUNTAINS in Cape Town with the intent of having all the proceeds that would emanate from that unique tourist attraction go to help children in Soweto. And although this deal wouldn't go through but how would God feel?

I mean,  beyond any of his imperfections. How would God feel? Would God feel like, 'yeah,  that's the work of my hands trying to improve the situation', or would God feel like,  'oh I wonder why he isn't doing anything to help somebody else?'

You just guessed right!

And so.... how does God feel about how YOU and I spent our money in 2016? I'm sure God is NOT HAPPY WITH ME in that regard.
I don't know about you?

COMPARE AND CONTRAST. Remember?

So most of us have just been EXISTING for way too long.  But as for me now I've started living. So I will write and speak so much until my fingers and vocal chords beg for mercy.
I want to change somebody's life.
I want to improve the situation before I go.
I want to be of service before my time is up.
I want to give more and more.
I may not have all the money now to donate to people suffer in Allepo or Burundi but what I have I will give it all. For that,  ladies and gentlemen is the real OBJECT of life.
To give.

So make it your business to give the best that you have to give support,  to give encouragement to give help to give support and as Les Brown once said,  if that's what your life will be about, then it will all come back to you. So give it all. And perhaps God will look beyond your imperfections and eventually LEAD YOU TO HIM.

That's why religious people might be surprised to find people who didn't practice religion as much as they did in heaven. Because they don't bother themselves much to give their all to improve the situation.  Prayer is the most powerful thing on earth. But if you don't do that which will improve the situation then you haven't lived a life of service but you've led a selfish and self-centered life of wanting a car and a house and children and vacations and nice food and drinks as if God took His time to create you to come down here and have fun and go.
Listen to me: The world is not a night club my friend.
Be responsible.


Semper Fi,

Andrea G. Muhozya
Dar es Salaam, Tanzania,
East Africa.
+255788366511
www.andreamuhozya.blogspot.com

IN THE MIND OF ELON MUSK and BILL GATES, ET AL.

In the mind of Elon Musk there's no space for Kim Kardashian's #behind.
In the mind of Elon Musk there's surely space for TESLA and this awesome space project for sending a rocket to MARS.

But in your mind there's enough space for not only Kim Kardashian's behind and her favourite diet and places for vacation but also in your mind there's enough space for her birthday and her friends' names, her hobbies, her pet, her husband's life and first and recent album or songs and their children's names and birthdays among many other things.

In BILL GATES' mind there's no space for who won the lottery and how, who stole  whose wife or husband and when, who wore the best dress on Christmas day,  who posted photos on instagram from abroad and when will they be back, which artist outperformed the other in the last concert. No! That's in your mind.
In Bill Gates mind there's a #vigorous search for the next 50 books to read in 2017. In his mind there's space for how to eradicate malaria in the world.  In  his mind there's space for which communities to help get clean and affordable water and electricity.
But in your mind there's space for "when will the government give you a job"!

That's YOUR mind. I love how Facebook kinda "mocks" you when it says: What's in your mind? Hahaha..  And you're secretly like: "Well, Kim Kardashian's........."

In your mind there's actually more than enough space for more crap than there's space for meaningful things.
In your mind there's actually space for FAKE NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS!
Can you imagine that??
And you have the audacity to think that you'll still be successful with that same MINDSET.

And you wonder why you are walking around lifeless.  You wonder why you struggle to smile.  You wonder why you still need an alarm clock to wake you up. You wonder why everything is headed south despite all the effort you put in.
You wonder why you are so waiting for JANUARY 1ST instead of looking forward to the next 5 or 30 minutes. You don't know it's your mind that's holding you back.

And God's looking for whose mind is being put to service for humanity so he can bless and increase that person.
So.. Who should God increase? One who wants a new phone to take more selfish next year, or one who's reading more books to learn how to eradicate a killer disease?

Which one of the two would you bless?

Now listen to me. Here's the problem.
Problem is you don't see yourself as an opening for God to USE to serve His people.  You're not seeing yourself as an opening for the Universe to use to make people's  lives better before your time's up.  It's all about YOU. That's why your mind has enough space for Kim Kardashian.... and Rihanna and the list of her ex-boyfriends.... and Beyonce.... and Gaga... and every other person that has an "entertaining effect" on your mind.  You don't see yourself as a SOLUTION to the woes of people around the world.  You think small because that space for solving problems of the world has been replaced by Kim Kardashian's big behind. And you're happy. And content.  And God's  wondering saying: I PLANTED GOOD SEED IN THIS PERSON'S MIND,  WHO PLANTED WEEDS IN HIS MIND!?

So my friend, reconsider your life.
Rethink your priorities.
God's  WAITING to increase you.  But not with that mindset.

When you come to the end of your life be sure to look back and see a meaningful #legacy.  A life of service to humanity.
Take care of your mind!  We all need a clean you,  a positive you, an ambitious you! Life will reward you greatly for cleaning up your mind!

I'm doing my part, do yours.

Semper Fi,

Andrea G.  Muhozya
Dar es Salaam,  Tanzania,
East Africa.

DO YOUR JOB... THEN GO HOME AND SLEEP

When I was an employee I had a boss who was both schooled and educated. That's rarity you know. Some people are so blinded by the happiness of being just literate that they forget they are still literati!

So back to my boss back then. He had noticed that I had thus weakness of trying to do things that weren't on my JOB DESCRIPTION. So he used to tell me, Andrea, when you come at work every morning have one thing in mind: DO YOUR JOB, THEN GO HOME AND SLEEP! He told me that he had picked that principle from his American colleagues while he was there for his studies. And so I too thought I should share a message around this invaluable principle of life today.

To be able to "DO YOUR JOB" though, you must first know what your job is. That's simple logic, right?

So, my friend, WHAT'S YOUR JOB here on earth?

I have studied several people who achieved success in different areas of life and I've come to realize that they knew/know EXACTLY why they were/are here. See, it's pointless for you to spend most of your life learning how to bark like a dog while you were created a bird. You cant bark my sister. You'll never bark my brother. You simply don't have it wired in you. You will eventually lose interest in it and you won't even know how to sing like other birds.
So why waste your time?

Most people who are working to succeed in life forget that they will never become someone else, no matter what they do or how much they pray or where they go!
It's only God who knows the number of presidents that this country will ever have till Kingdom Come. Are sure you'll be in that number? Coz you are not entitled to anything but what God allows that you should have. Some were created to bear, or to father or mother someone who will become president. Some were created to teach someone who will become president. Some were created to advise someone who will become president. It's only God who knows who will become who and why. Your number one task as a HUMAN being is to find out first why you are here! Why you were created in the first place. Were you created to be an entertainer or an educator? A politician or a nun or monk? A scientist or an athlete? Don't try to become someone else.
Were you created to be THE RICHEST PERSON in the world or in Africa? Coz there will be only ONE richest person at any point in time. So are you one of those?

Jim Rohn did not attempt to become Warren Buffet. Are you hearing me?

Zig Ziglar didn't attempt to become Bill Cosby

Nelson Mandela did not attempt to become a boxing champion.  Mohammad Ali did.

James Allen did not attempt to become Shakespeare

Tony Robbins didn't attempt to become Anorld Schwarzenegger

Michael Jordan didn't attempt to become Ben Carson

Ben Carson attempted to be President of The  United States, but God had Donald Trump in mind. See? Of course time will tell if Carson will ever become president or not.

I'm not trying to shut you down but only put you into perspective.
You must know the area of your success. What did God wire you with? Writing skills? Speaking skills? A beautiful voice? Muscular feet? Super good brain power? What is it that your heart knows you can do better - WITHOUT PAY.

Mother Theresa did not try to become the best gymnast in the world.

I have heard so many dreams from so many people and friends. I came across a lady three years ago who told me she was going to start a big talk show like OPRAH. I asked her: Do you know Oprah's story? She said NO. I told her: Then you don't know what you're talking about.

I was with a colleague of mine yesterday and she told me she wants to become an INTERNATIONAL MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER. I simply asked her one question. How do you feel about it, will someone die if you don't become that? She was aback by my question. She had to think about it a lot before saying, faintly, "YES". See, whatever God created you to do you will always feel like someone might die if you don't become what you want to become. You'll feel compelled to work hard to become that person. You won't try copying anyone. You'll be ready to sacrifice everything to get it. Most ladies I meet want to become Oprah. And they just want the glory, they don't even know her real struggles. Her story. You can't be Oprah because your story isn't her story.

See, you must know that not every lady will become Oprah. Genevieve Nnaji will never become Angelina Jolie. Michael Jackson never attempted to be Lionel Richie, let alone attempting to become a Senator or a Navy Seal. Do YOUR job.

You have to know that when you attempt to become what you were not created to be the whole world will conspire to oppose you and remind you you are becoming an intruder. But when you flow in your area not even the entire universe can stop you from getting to the top of that field if you're really determined.

If you're a writer then DO YOUR JOB. Someone needs to read your book so they can become rich. Listen, for more than 30 years Bill Gates has been reading 1 book a week, that's 50 books a year, that's 1500 books in 30 years. But remember those aren't his books. These are books written by other people. These writers did their job and went home and slept (like my boss used to tell me). What they didn't know that they were helping feeding a single human being's mind with so much valuable information enough to elevate him to the top of the world financially.
If these 1500+ or so writers had individually attempted to become the richest person in the world they would have wasted a lot of time and they would have failed. Someone wrote a book titled THINK AND GROW RICH. He did his JOB. And went home to sleep.

So what's your job? Usijaribu kuwa DEWJI au BAKHRESSA tu! You'll be disappointed badly. You must first find out if that's what you are here for? And once you understand this principle you can quit your job or look for a job immediately! You will stop living to please ANYBODY.

The problem I see with most people is that they want to identify themselves with successful people. They want to sing like a certain successful pop star! They want to talk like a certain motivational speaker. They want to dress or make their hair like someone else. They are busy trying to die copies and not trying to live as originals. That's TRAGIC. And an insult to God. You must do your best be the best version of YOURSELF.

So why are you here?
What's your JOB? Do your job and leave well alone.

I took law and realized I wasn't here to become the best lawyer. Law had it's purpose in my life. I went to work for a commercial bank and realized it really wasn't for me. I realized there were things I could do for FREE. Such as doing bness, speaking, writing, etc. I could do them without pay and I would still be not only satisfied but actually FULFILLED. You must search within yourself. Or you'll spend your life trying to be Donald Trump - someone who started with a small loan of a million dollars from his father. Or you'll spend your life trying to be president not knowing you were supposed to start a school where future presidents would get their education.

You started flying, don't finish your life crashing! Bill Gates doesn't ridicule the messages of the writers whose books he reads. He knows they've done their job and gone to sleep. But I know some people on this earth if you gave them the same book that Bill Gates is reading this week and taking notes from they'll probably find faulty with everything the writer says. You know why? Because the message is NOT for them. They're not meant to be the richest person in the world.

Most people will one to the end of their lives and feel so sorry for having wasted a lot of their energy, and time trying to look great, or trying to be someone else. I loved the response of SIMONE BILES, the American gymnast and vault and floor gold medalist who did wonders in the Rio Olympics this year. When congratulated and asked if she felt good to be "the next Michael Phelps" she said "I'M NOT THE NEXT MICHAEL PHELPS, I AM THE FIRST SIMONE BILES"!!!

Wow! You've got to love that love for originality!
In other words she was saying Michael Phelps did his job. I'm doing mine.
That's what I'm talking about!

You've got to identify your SPACE and stay therein. Then do something in that arena and leave the scene as a winner!
Do you wonder why Aliko Dangote isn't trying to become Nigeria's president but a number of his country men and women are working hard to get the job not knowing only one person will get it? That happens in every nation. I'm sure it's not in Bill Gates'mind to be #POTUS.

Most people aren't doing their job. Don't be one of them. Determine from today on that YOU'LL DO YOUR JOB AND GO HOME AND SLEEP.


My boss said so.

Do your job. Don't try to please anyone. God will only ask you how you did what he brought you here to do. MAKE SURE YOU HAVE ANSWERS AND YOU CAN SHOW FRUITS OF YOUR LABOUR.


Heaven is for people who did their assignments.
Find yours!



Semper Fi,


Andrea G. Muhozya
Dar es Salaam, Tanzania
East Africa.

WhatsApp +255788366511
www.andreamuhozya.blogspot.com

THE THREE KINDS OF PEOPLE YOU WILL ASSOCIATE WITH AND THE RESULTS THEREOF .. AINA TATU ZA WATU UTAKAOHUSIANA NAO NA MATOKEO UNAYOPASWA KUTARAJIA

Wakati niko High School mwalimu wangu wa somo la Historia alipenda kusema kuwa dalili mojawapo ya kutoelekea mafanikio yako ni kuwa na mahusiano ya kila siku (day-to-day) na watu kwa kuwa mambo unayoongea wanayaona ni point kweli kweli. Au kwa kuwa unawazidi pesa au level ya maisha.. Au kuwa na ukaribu na watu sababu tu mnafanya kazi pamoja au mnafanya vitu vya kufanana bila kujali kama kuna value yoyote wanaongeza katika maisha yako. Au kuwa na ukaribu na watu kwa kuwa tu wote mmetokea sehemu moja  - bila ya kujali wanakoelekea na wewe unakoelekea.  Katika hili alipenda sana kutoa mfano wa wakati yeye akiwa Chuo Kikuu jinsi alivyokataa kuwa katika "UMOJA" wa watu wa kabila lake, kwa sababu alikuwa akisema "IT'S NOT ABOUT WHERE YOU COME FROM BUT WHERE YOU'RE GOING". Yaani muhimu siyo wapi unatoka bali wapi unaenda.
Wise man.

Ukichunguza maisha ya watu wengi utagundua kuwa kuna uhusiano mkubwa kati ya level ya maisha yao na watu wanaoji-associate nao.  Hata wewe unaweza kuona hilo. Wataalamu wanaita hii kitu LAW OF ASSOCIATION. Ambayo wanasema kuwa "Wewe ni WASTANI wa watu watano ulio na ukaribu nao zaidi"

Yaani ufahamu wako, pesa zako, mali zako, na hata ndoto zako, huwa zinakuwa ni WASTANI wa vile vya watu wako watano unaoji-associate nao kwa ukaribu. Kwa hiyo ukitaka kubadili level ya maisha yako basi badili tu gia. Gia yenyewe ni nini? Gia ni aina ya marafiki zako watano wa karibu.


Kimsingi kuna MAKUNDI matatu makuu ambayo unatakiwa kuyajua linapokuja suala la watu ulio na ukaribu nao. Or rather, watu walio na ukaribu na wewe.


I. WATU UNAOWAZIDI UWEZO

Hili ni kundi la kwanza. Na hili ni kundi litakalokufanya ushindwe kufikia mafanikio yako. Sasa inawezekana umelelewa katika mazingira ambayo hukuwa ukitambulika kwenu. Na Mungu si Athumani sasa umepiga hatua fulani kiufahamu. Ama kifedha. Ama kiroho. Na hivyo kuna watu wanatamani kuwa tu karibu na wewe. Sasa usiingie mtego wa kuwafanya kuwa your ASSOCIATES. Utarudi nyuma sana. Maana hawa hawana cha maana cha kuadd maishani mwako. Bali they are the takers. They'll take everything you have and give you nothing in return.  Hawa ni watu ambao sometimes wanaona wako entitled kupokea kutoka kwako na siyo kutoa. Usipowasaidia au kuwashauri au kuwainua watakuona mbaya. Be wary of them. My auntie aliwahi niambia usiwasaidie watu mpaka wakaona hakuna haja ya kuomba wala kumtegemea Mungu. Utakuwa wewe umekuwa Mungu wao and God will punish you.

So kundi hili hawana cha kukupa cha maana. They're at the bottom. Ukiwaweka hawa karibu utaishia kulose hata zile gifts ambazo Mungu alikupa. Hawa ni walalamishi. Negative thinking. They have the victim's mentality. Hawatakufikisha popote.
Pause now and think. Je katika watu ulio na ukaribu nao sana kuna watu wa aina hiyo? Cut off the relationship mapema. Anza tu kupunguza u karibu. It's for your own good. And eventually theirs too. Kama una watu ambao kwa mfano una ukaribu nao mwaka mzima huu January till now December but hujapata any value in any way from them ondoka. Wanasema if you are the smartest in the group then leave that group.

Jiangalie je are you the smartest and more knowledgeable and more successful katika kundi ulilopo la marafiki zako au watu wako wa karibu?

Leave!
Or you'll never grow.


II. WATU MNAOLINGANA AU KUFANANA UWEZO/MAISHA/MTAZAMO

Birds of a feather......! Walijisemea waingereza. And rightly so!

Hapa kuna shida zaidi. Hawa ni watu ambao mpo level sawa kimaisha. Kiufahamu. Etc. Hapa tunaita YOUR COMFORT ZONE. Hapa ni pagumu kutoka kuliko kundi la kwanza. Maana kundi la kwanza ni watu unaweza kusema tu "banae hawa wananitumia tu ngoja niondoke". Lakini kundi hili la watu unaolingana nao,, wote mna "ELIMU YA JUU", okay, wote mna "maisha flani hivi". Sijui unanielewa. Kama ni wanafunzi wote mnategemea mkopo in one way or another. Kama ni wajasiriamali wote mko mnafananafanana hata kama mnafanya vitu tofauti. Kwa kifupi you "speak the same language". Yani unafeel at home ukiwa around nao. Uko nyumbani. Hujisikii kama "intruder". Yani wewe jiangalie hapo ulipo ni watu gani ambao ni "washkaji zako" au "mashosti" wa toka long time. You kind of palled up with them long ago and you kind of don't see yourself moving ahead without them. Hao yani. Watu ambao wakikwambia "Aisee weekend wapi?" Majibu unayo? Watu ambao mnaiva siyo kwa sababu mnasaidiana kugrow ila kwa sababu mko level moja ya maisha. Hao watu ndiyo kitanzi cha wewe kutofikia KILELE CHA MAFANIKIO YAKO. I'm telling you. Huwezi tu kuamua kuwa busy na kucompromise muda wa wewe na wao. Mmekunywa wote bia toka enzi Merryland inavuma hapo ITV kisha mkahamia Break Point baadaye mkaenda Rose Garden nk. Mmetoka "mbali". Hao watu ambao uko nao comfortable  ni kikwazo cha wewe kukua. Sababu kiwango cha muda wako wanachotumia bila kuadd value yoyote ya maana ni kikubwa sana. Hawa watu kitu muhimu duniani kama APPOINTMENT mkipanga kisha ukachelewa hawawezi kukukaripia au "kukusema" ili uone umefanya mistake kubwa. No. Watakuuliza tu maswali ya kijinga "Umepita kwa mchepuko nini??" Coz hata appointment ikiwa ni ya jambo nyeti kabisa but aina ya watu hao ni watu wasio na character ya kukupush kuchukulia mambo serious. Kama unahisi hapo ulipo umepiga hatua basi jaribu kujitenga kidogo na comfort zone yako utashangaa utakavyokwenda mbali zaidi. Watu wengi huishia hapa katika maisha. Wako juu lakini wako kwenye kitu tunaita PLATEAU OF SUCCESS. Kweli kabisa anaonekana amefanikiwa lakini yuko kwenye plateaut. Kuna tofauti ya kupanda ili milima na nyanda za juu kusini na kupanda hadi Kibo ya Kilimanjaro. Ni Kibo tu ambayo dunia nzima itaona umepanda juu kweli kweli. Being the highest point kwa hapa Africa! See? Plateau Success itakufaa kwa sasa lakini siku ukija kugundua badala ya kwenda Nyanda za Juu Kusini ulitakiwa ujikakamue uende kwa Wachaga ukafike Kibo pia utagundua umepoteza muda mwingi sana wa thamani. I'm not trying to tell you kuishi bila marafiki. No I'm trying to tell you marafiki zako *WA KARIBU* wasiwe unaowazidi au mnaolingana tu. Jaribu kupunguza marafiki wa aina mbili katika circle yako ya watu wa karibu uanze kuongeza aina ya tatu ya marafiki.


III. WATU WANAOKUZIDI KWA VITU VINGI AU VYOTE

Kuingiza watu wa aina hii katika circle ya watu wako wa karibu inahitaji UJIKANE NAFSI kwanza. Na hili ndo humu. Kuwa na watu unaowazidi ndo wakawa your CONFIDANTS haihitaji kujikana inahitaji "ujinga" flani  hivi kichwani. Maana kama mipango yako ya ndani na siri zako nk unawashirikisha zaidi watu unaowazidi ambao hawana uwezo wa kucontribute chochote kufikia malengo yako kivile inahitaji uwe umejivika ujinga flani kwanza. Kuwafanya your comfort zone kuwa your CONFIDANTS pia haihitaji kujikana ni kama wajibu maana kila mtu tuko comfortable na mwenzake na hawa ndo huwa wanachomeana kwa wakubwa nk. But kuwa na u karibu na watu MNAOLINGANA haihitaji kujikana. Ila ukitaka katika watu wako wa karibu awemo Dewji unaonaje? Inabidi uifanyie kazi hiyo nafasi siyo? Why? Sababu watu waliofanikiwa huwa wako busy zaidi na mambo yaliyowafanya wafanikiwe. Kiukweli hawana sana muda na vitu kama matokeo ya mpira labda kama anataka kununua timu au ana timu tayari. Hawana muda sana kujua Lema anatoka lini ameonewa au la. Hicho  katika list ya vitu vilivyompa utajiri. Mtoto wa Diamond atapewa jina gani. Hilo halipiti kichwani mwake. Nadhani unaona tofauti sasa?

Ili huyu mtu awe kiongozi mwa watu wako wa karibu basi atakutest kwa vitu vidogo vidogo na kisha vikubwa nk. Anataka kujua unaweza kuaminiwa na information nyeti au uko fragile. Atakupa kitu umwekee umtunzie kisha atakwambia anakihitaji siku 10 baadaye then three days later atakwambia samahani Nina emergency kile kitu naomba umpelekee mtu fulani mahali fulani. Anatest je jibu lako litakuwa na "lakini"? Je utadeliver results au utampa excuses?
Imagine alipewa pesa Fulani ndogo tu labda laki akakuomba umwekee hadi siku 10 ndo ataihitaji na akakwambia sababu kwa nini hataki kukaa na hiyo pesa hapo anajua una shida ya pesa vibaya mno. Maskini unaenda kuitumia ukijua siku kumi kwanza mshahara utakuwa ushatoka afu anakupigia kesho yake tu kuwa inahitaji ka. Tena anakutumia SMS tu. Inahitajika mahali kuna mtu wa karibu nami ana shida muhimu. Akihisi tu response yako inaonyesha uliitumia basi mmeishana.

Mtu aliyefanikiwa atakupima kujua motive yako ya kutaka u karibu na yeye ni ipi? What's your "why"? And the WHY behind that "why"? Atajua tu. Nadhani unaona kwa nini matajiri na waliofanikiwa wanakuwa na marafiki wachache mno. Akiona una deserve attention yake atakuwa na ukaribu na wewe hata kama ni kwa mipaka lakini anajua wewe una DNA ya mafanikio na ya greatness. Ukuu. So utaongeza kitu kwake pia in the long run. Otherwise baki huko huko chini usijenivuta kurudi chini kuliko kwa thinking yako. Negative mind yako. Poverty mindset yako. Watu waliofanikiwa wanajali muda. So ukitaka kuwa na ukaribu naye jijengee tabia ya kukeep time na appointments bila VIJISABABU.

Kundi hili ukifanikiwa kuwa na mmoja tu akawa mtu wako wa karibu. Yani kuna vitu akipata a nakupigia simu tu from nowhere kukwambia "Aisee ulinambia unataka kufanya hivi na vile nimefikiria nikasema kwa nini usifanye hivi na hivi kwanza?" Hivi kama mtu aliyefanikiwa anaweza kuacha mambo yake akakupigia simu yeye mwenyewe kukupa mawazo yake unadhani ni bure? Si keshaona wewe ni "mwenzake" japo upo chini bado.

Hili kundi limewashinda wengi kuwa nalo karibu. But ndo kundi lenye majibu ya maswali yako mengi kama unataka kuifikia KIBO ya mafanikio yako pia!

Lakini kama umeridhika na level ya nyanda za juu kusini sawa endelea na mashosti na washkati. Eti my colleagues. Wasomi wana maneno! Haya bana.

Rafiki yangu Josiah Otege alionge akiiongelea juzi anaita LAW OF ASSOCIATION. Alifafanua vema sana umuhimu wa kuassociate na the right people.a kuna Dada mmoja anaitwa June Uronu  juzi juzitatehe 1 December mida ya saa moja na nusu usiku aliandika maneno yafuatayo kwenye ukuta wake wa Facebook: "NGUVU ZA MATAJIRI WOTE HAZIPO BENKI KWENYE ACCOUNT ZAO, ZIPO KWA WATU WALIOMO KWENYE MAISHA YAO YA KILA SIKU"

Akamalizia kusema: "UKIKUBALI KUZUNGUKWA NA WATU WAVIVU, WAZEMBE, WAMBEA NA WALEVI WA STAREHE WEWE UTAKUWA MASKINI HADI UZIKWE"

Powerful message!
Ndo maana nakumbuka mpaka siku na muda! Nilitamani kila mtu aisome ndo maana nimeireproduce hapa. Mdogo wangu mwingine anaitwa Elizabeth C Luzutta naye akasema "BE CAREFUL THE FRIENDS YOU CHOOSE, YOU WILL END UP LIKE THEM"

Hawa watu watatu wote niliowataja wameandika ujumbe unaoshabihiana kwq nyakati tofauti katika mazingira tofauti. Na Mimi nimeshare hayo makundi ili upate nyongeza ya vile wengine wlivyotangulia kusema. Hope itakusaidia kuangalia watu ulioruhusu kwenye circle yako ya urafiki. Nimejifunza kuwa lazima u-cut off baadhi ya mahusiano ili uende mbali. Imeleta shida kwangu lakini kwa sababu najua ninakokwenda kuna watu wala hawaelekei huko so why nikae nao tunajadili kuhusu kwenda wapi sasa wakati wenzangu wamefika? Nimefanya makosa mengi lakini KOSA kubwa nililolifanya muda mrefu ni AINA YA WATU niliokubali kuwa na u karibu nao.. Maana walinishepu nikawa kama wao. But not anymore!  I have set a new standard for ME. Na mimi natafuta marafiki wapya watakaoni challenge kukua na kufikia KIBO ya mafanikio aliyoniwekea Mungu mbele yangu. It's sad to lose some "friends" but kwenye kutimiza kusudi la kuumbwa kwako usiangalie sana feelings au inconvenience. Kofi Anan aliwahi kusema:/WHAT MATTERS IS NOT THE INCONVENIENCE, WHAT MATTERS IS DOING THE RIGHT THING".

Huwezi kwenda Mtwara halafu unaambatana na watu wanaenda Ukerewe! #InahitajiUjingaFlani hiyo au siyo.

Mwaka huu unapoisha angalia watu wako wa karibu ni wapi. Je unataka kuendeleza u rafiki wa karibu na watu gani?

UNAOWAZIDI?
Kwa sababu hawawezi kukuchallenge?
#InahitajiUjingaFlaniHivi

MNAOLINGANA?
Kwa sababu unajisikia nyumbani?
#InahitajiKuridhikaFlaniHivi

WANAOKUZIDI?
Kwa sababu watakuchallenge na kukufanya ujichunguze wewe binafsi na mienendo yako?
#InahitajiKujikanaFulaniHivi

So who are your friends?

Mwaka huu 2016 BILL GATES na WARREN BUFFET walisherehekea miaka 25 ya URAFIKI wakati wewe unasherehekea miaka mitano ya urafiki wa Facebook na huyo rafiki yako. Kuna siku mtakuwa mmekuwa marafiki kwa miaka 25 pia!  Swali ni je, Urafiki wenu utakuwa umekufanya ufikie ndoto zako au upoteze ndoto zako na maono yako na destiny yako? Siyo mpenzi sana wa mpira siku hizi kama miaka 8 iliyopita lakini nikimwangalia Cristiano Ronaldo ana aina fulani tu ya marafiki kwenye team yake. Wengine ni wafanyakazi wenzake tu. Lakini friends wa karibu very few. Na wote wanaperform vizuri..siyo wa Team B. Why? Coz birds of a feather...!
Role models wake ni high performers na confidants wake pia.
What about you?

20 years toka sasa utakuwa mtu mzima tu wa kutosha. Urafiki utachangia sana utakuwa mtu wa aina gani. Kataa friend request nyingine Facebook. Siyo sifa kufika limit ya watu 5000 Facebook afu kati yao una watu wasiozidi 10 tu ambao ndo wanakusaidia angalau kujitambua na kuwa bora zaidi ya jana. Why on earth have the 5000? Kama Yesu angeanza na watu 5000 na kisha akafika mwisho na kugundua kumbe alitakiwa aanze na 12 tu angekuwa ameDISCO. Lakini alijua.

Alikuwa na 12 tu na kati ya hao akawa na 3 tu wa karibu (Petro, Yakobo na Yohana) and kati ya hao akawa na 1 (Yohana) tu wa karibu zaidi.

Watu waliofanikiwa ndivyo walivyo..wanajua vizuri kuwa lazima kuwa na circle ndogo ya watu wa karibu. Ndo maana ukitaka wakuweke kwenye hiyo circle you've got to prove yourself worth!

Huwezi kuwa "mjanja" kuliko Yesu. Unataka uwe na urafiki na kila mtu. Aliyewaumba mwenyewe wengine hawataki urafiki naye. Wewe ndo utawaweza? My friend be careful. And good luck as you brace for 2017!


With lots of love,


Semper Fi,


Andrea G Muhozya
Dar es Salaam, Tanzania,
East Africa.

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